Reclaim Peace with Conscious Relationship

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Am I enough? Am I worth it? These are all questions we have asked ourselves at one point in our lives. Whether it was for a partner or work, our self-esteem has been compromised and we have tried to reclaim peace with ourselves. We can reclaim peace with a conscious relationship, and here is how.

What is a conscious relationship?

Having a conscious relationship marks the ability to know ourselves, our needs, and wants. To be satisfied in any relationship, first, you need to be happy with yourself. So, what is a conscious relationship? It is accepting ourselves with all the good and bad sides we see. We need to be aware of our faults and be ready to work on them. It is okay not to be perfect, we are humans. Working on ourselves is the first step we need to take to be happier within. The goal here isn't to be flawless, but self-aware.

Building a conscious relationship

Building a conscious relationship with someone means double the work. As well as knowing our mistakes, we need to know what we desire. From a young age, people were taught to adjust to their environment. But building your own relationship means you get all the freedom. Before starting this new chapter, try to forget the bad experiences you had before. Only use them to learn. Don’t let them hold you back from having what you really deserve. Sometimes it is hard being honest even with ourselves. Know that both of you are facing the same issues. Some things will be hard to hear, others will be hard to say. However, the result will be worth it.

Reclaim peace

The better relationship we have with ourselves the less stress we will have in our other relationships. This is a foundation we start from that needs to be secured. We need to be enough for ourselves. People normalized the idea that a fulfilled life means having a loving partner. Somebody loving us shouldn’t give us more worth. The great love that we read about in books can be found within us. Find it in you and reclaim the peace you long for. Realizing that you deserve to be loved will open a whole world of new possibilities.

The security of a conscious relationship brings peace. Knowing that the person you are with has the same goals as you and is ready to put the work into evolving as a human being. You will have a partner that you can confide in. All your feelings, fantasies, and fears are spoken out loud without any fear of being judged. This is your safe space. There will always be hard times, but they give us a chance to learn how we deal with them. Going back to the foundation of love after darker times is the reward we work for. Two individuals that work together toward the same goals – the kind of partnership that can heal people.

Natalia Padgen